March 2023, fave media


N. Cáceres’s Obsidian Feathers (Fire on the Horizon #1)

Will be absolutely checking out the rest of this dark paranormal romance. Mind the dark fantasy label.

Mari Costa’s Belle of the Ball

I feel like this was made just for me.

Claire Kann’s The Romantic Agenda

Also just for me.

Books, honorable mention

Lucille Clifton’s poetry

Joanna Lowell’s Artfully Yours


Bondax’s Energy (ft. Andreya Triana)

Desta French’s Guajira (Live)

Mandinga’s We Don’t Talk Anymore (Charlie Puth & Selena Gomez cover) (Live)

Raquel Rodriguez’s You Are Everything (ft. Stan Taylor) (The Stylistics cover)


Article: Adrienne Matei’s Live Closer To Your Friends

“Friends who already live in the same city could decide to move within walking distance of one another—the same neighborhood, block, or even apartment building—and campaign for others to do the same. Doing so would likely involve a lot of effort on the front end, but the resulting community could pay emotional dividends for years.”

“Moving close to your friends requires some masterminding. Cities can make doing so easier by dismantling single-family zoning codes and encouraging a variety of housing types in neighborhoods, giving those with different budgets and living situations options that fit their needs. But even without official policies, people can make it work on their own—assuming they’re persuasive enough.”

Article: Clementine Morrigan’s They Don’t Even Know They Are Tops and Bottoms

Article that I’m thinking about around the assumptions of “Compulsory Heteronormativity and Consent.”

Musical: Six

Would absolutely see this again.

Feb 2023, fave media


Author: Kennedy Ryan

Her smut! Wheww.

Article: Roxane Gay’s The Honeymoon Hasn’t Ended

Cosign everything she decries about marriage not having to be miserable.


Durand Bernarr’s Volume (ft. Kaytranada) and Passport (ft. Anna Wise)


Yes, I know I’m late to the party.

Cynthia Erivo’s I Wanna Dance (With Somebody Who Loves Me) (Whitney Houston cover)

Elton John and Britney Spears’ Hold Me Closer

Obsessed with the music video.

Rihanna’s Work

Yes, I know I’m late to this one too. But better late than never right?

Jamila Woods’ Giovanni (Live at NPR’s Tiny Desk)

Jan 2023, fave media

January continued to be a slow reading month for me, so a short post.


Ilona Andrews’ Magic Tides (Kate Daniels: Wilmington Years #1)

Anything that makes me cackle out loud is a good thing.

Melissa Caruso’s The Ivory Tomb (Rooks and Ruin #3)

while the first book is by far my favorite, kudos for sticking the ending

Adriana Herrera’s A Caribbean Heiress in Paris (Las Leonas #1)

By far the best thing I read in January. A heroine who has a flask strapped to one thigh and a pistol on the other, a hero who takes contraceptives, one of the best safer sex conversations I’ve read in the genre, and some sex scenes that had me raising my eyebrows in the best way. Get into the future of historical romance y’all.

Re-read: Jeffe Kennedy’s Pages of the Mind (The Uncharted Realms #1)

Honorable mention:

Music: Lizzo’s Live in Concert

Yes, I am still listening to this on repeat.

Podcast: Within the Wires S7

A joyous season (a rarity in this series) with a hopeful ending, told through a world wide scavenger hunt. Patreon here. Transcripts available.

2022 faves

I did a lot of rereading this year, so this is full of more new music than books.

Fiction books

M.A. Carrick’s The Mask of Mirrors and The Liar’s Knot (Rose and Rook #1 & 2)

Akwaeke Emezi’s You Made a Fool of Death With Your Beauty

Jackie Lau’s The Stand-Up Groomsman (Donut Fall in Love #2)

Ed. Andrea Purcell’s Sordid Past

Honorable mention: Robert Jackson Bennett’s Locklands (The Founders Trilogy #3) and Ilona Andrews’ Ruby Fever (Hidden Legacy #6)

For sticking the landing as a trilogy closers.

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Dec 2022, fave media


Rebecca Roanhorse’s Tread of Angels

This was so good, and I hope Roanhorse revisits this heroine. While not a romance like Bridgerton, it does hit the same sweet spot S2 hit for me about being bound by guilt and familial obligation. I also love that the heroine realizes her own capacity for cruelty.

Re-read: Akwaeke Emezi’s Dear Senthuran

On rereading this, I think this is overlooked as a book about the writing life.

Re-read: Nalini Singh’s Last Guard (Psy-Changeling Trinity #5)

Re-read: Joey W. Hill’s Worth the Wait (Nature of Desire #9)

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Nov 2022, fave media


The World We Make by N.K. Jemisin (Great Cities #2)

For whatever reason, I didn’t like the first book in this duo, but I adored The World We Make. I laughed, I hollered, and I shed a tear or two too.

Partners in Crime by Alisha Rai

I’ve been following Rai since her indie days, and this is the first of her trad pub novels that I think captures the magic of her indies.

The Stand-Up Groomsman by Jackie Lau (Donut Fall In Love #2)

Representation I didn’t know I wanted or needed.

Other Ever Afters by Melanie Gillman

My heart!

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Oct 2022, fave media


A Merry Little Meet Cute by Julie Murphy & Sierra Simone

The Future is Disabled by Leah Lakshmi Pipezna-Samarasinha

Author’s Patreon here.

Pimiko and the Uncharted Island by forthright

This series remains some of the queerest stuff I’ve ever read (FFM queerplatonic triad in this one), and yet some of the worldbuilding choices are bewildering to me. That said, I will be sad when this series ends with the next (7th book). Author’s Patreon here.


dolltr!ck’s Let This Go

Leyla McCalla’s Dodinin & Fort Dimanche (Live at NPR Tiny Desk)

Allison Russell’s Kathy (Live at Juno Songwriters’ Circle 2022)

Pharaoh Sanders’ Selflessness

Sophia Subbayya Vastek’s album, In Our Softening

Jazmine Sullivan’s Stand Up

Vienna Teng’s Lost Words Blessing (Spell Songs cover)

The last song on her Live @ Home Set #2 (Oct 2022) if you subscribe to her Patreon.

Jamila Woods’ Boundaries

Sept 2022, fave media


Re-read: Alyssa Cole’s Can’t Escape Love (Reluctant Royals #2.6)

Re-read: Alyssa Cole’s A Prince on Paper (Reluctant Royals #3)

Don’t miss the epilogue from the teddy bear’s POV.

Podcast: Therapy Ghostbusters

After reading Stephanie Foo’s What My Bones Know, I heard her do an interview with Esmé Weijun Wang where she mentioned this topic. I’m thrilled she was able to explore it in podcast form. Transcript here.

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Aug 2022, fave media


Ilona Andrews’ Ruby Fever (Hidden Legacy #6)

No complaint in this trilogy ender. So good. Also dead @ Vicky Baby. I’m hoping for an Arabella trilogy in the future! That said, this is not the book to start on in this series; start either with Burn for Me (Nevada’s first novel) or Sapphire Flames (Catalina’s first novel).

Jamie Wesley’s Fake It Till You Bake It

The romance book club made this for me.

Julia Whelan’s Thank You For Listening

The author has spent a lot of time in the romance industry, and you can tell. If you read romance, this is an absolute delight.

Kendra Allen’s Fruit Punch

Broadened my mind on what is possible in memoir with the way time slips when you look back.

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